THINGS YOU DO THAT ARE DRIVING MEN AWAY

Hello guys,i'm so sorry for not publishing for some time now,i've been so busy with school stuffs and also business *wink*.So today i will like to talk about some of the things ladies do that drive men away, you would be surprised to discover that some of the pains you undergo to impress a man are needless and that  just might be what is driving him away. Ready to find out what those things may be?

Overdressing:

It is okay to have your own definition of style and all of that but if you are over the top and showing more skin than is necessay, it is a big no-no for a guy. He wouldn't want the goods meant for him to   be displayed cheaply on the counter. Also, if your style is too non-conformist, he'll probably think you are crazy.

Being a gossip:

You may think that it is the only gist but all the while you are talking about somebody else to him, he is wondering if this is how you also talk about him and if at all he can trust you with his deepest secrets. You see, honey,you just failed the test.

Being Conceited:

High self-esteem is good and healthy but talking about yourself all the time and your achievement all the time is certainly more than he will want to take on. Know the difference between arrogance and high self-esteem.

Too much makeup:

This goes hand-in-hand with the above. Makeup is meant to enhance the qualities that are already present, not fabricate them so take it down a notch, lady. He wants to see your face not a painting.

Playing hard to get:

It is understandable that you don't want to seem cheap but he is not out to play games and so if you know you like him enough, cut it out before he walks away.

Being needy:

A guy likes to know he is needed but not to the point where you rely on him for everything and you become so possessive. He needs to know you are a big girl.

Nagging:

Nagging doesn’t motivate a man (or anyone) to do what you want. It’s annoying. It turns a guy off. Instead, make a clear request. Tell him what you want. Tell him why you want it. Tell him when you want it.

You compare him to your ex:

He is not your ex. He is not the person who hurt you, cheated on you, or left you. Give him a chance to be seen and loved for who he is.

Ladies, how have you unknowingly  driven your man away in the past, and guys,how have you ever felt driven away?, let us know your opinion in the comment box.