My name is Jerry, a 36year-old man living and working in Lagos. I got married six months ago but right now i'm full of regret and i want to end it all.
The reason for my disillusionment stems from the fact that my wife, Martha, lied to me that she was a virgin when we met and refused to allow me have sex with her till we got married.
But after we got married, i found out that she was not even close to being a virgin but very experienced in the sex game who had many sexual partners in the past.
I met Martha when she started worshiping in our church where i was the head usher. Our church doctrine is such that you had to inform the pastor if you were interested in a woman and such relationships must always lead to marriage or it would not be approved.
When Martha came to join the church, her zeal was so great as she joined almost all the departments and was always a reference point.
One thing that stood her out was her carriage and charisma and many of us guys were scared of getting close to her but i summoned the courage and made my intentions known to her.
I also informed the pastor that i wanted to marry her and thus began our courtship. In the course of our courtship, Martha told me she was a virgin and wanted to remain so until her wedding night.
I was pleasantly surprised that a mature, beautiful and brilliant lady like that would remain a virgin despite the temptation out there and that made me even love her the more and hasten our marriage plans.
We got married after five months of courtship but i was shocked on our first night when i discovered that my wife was not what she claimed she was. Not that i would have minded but that lie alone has really put me off her and i don't think i can ever trust her again.
She has confessed that she only lied to me because she thought i only wanted to use and dump her like other men in the past but how can i live with a woman who manipulated me into marrying her?.
Dear readers, Jerry is not a happy man today as his wife lied to him about her being a virgin. What do you think he should do?....comment your opinion.
since she has already confessed i think the man should just try to forgive her though it's not easy...she had gone through a lot and did not want to be heart broken again, it's not a justified reason though but he should just try and understand her.
ReplyDeletethanks for your opinion,but not all men will understand
Deletewell, i pray this man will understand
Deletelol Amen
DeleteWell..... I know the man is hurt o but he should just forgive her and they should move on, expect for the fact that he married her cos she was a virgin not because he loved her
ReplyDeletenice one....thanks for your opinion
DeleteThe woman don fuck up sha
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